5 Myths About Volunteering at Youth Group

Children are the future of the Church, which is why it’s important to help young people of all ages build solid relationships with Jesus. Volunteering at your church’s youth group puts you in the perfect position to show students the love of Christ, but you may wonder if you’re cool enough to work with teenagers. However, at Orlando private schools, we believe that compassionate adult volunteers make a huge difference.Myth 1: Youth groups only need young volunteers.Many adults feel as if they aren’t useful as a youth group volunteer because of their age — but think again. Teenagers are drawn to sincere adults who listen and take their problems seriously, no matter their age. There are also many students who lack a mother or father figure and crave that relationship. Volunteering is the perfect opportunity to step into that role and share kindness, encouragement, and wisdom with a child who may not get the same support at home.Myth 2: You have to know everything about teen culture.Teen culture is always evolving, and it’s hard to keep up with popular music, movies, and memes. Good news: you don’t have to keep up! In fact, teens will probably love telling you all about their world. Even if it’s a foreign language to you, just put on your listening ears and be interested; show students they matter to you.Myth 3: You have to be cool.The children at your church’s youth group aren’t looking to connect with cool people; they’re looking to connect with authentic people. If you’re willing to be silly and genuine and be your real self around students — uncool habits and all — then you’re the perfect fit.Myth 4: You should act like a teenager.Duffy Robbins, a professor of youth ministry at Eastern University, said, “Teenagers don’t need adults who act like teenagers. They need adults who don’t freak out when teenagers act like teenagers.” You don’t have to blend in; in fact, you should stand out as a leader.Myth 5: You have to recite the Bible from memory.You should certainly be familiar with the Bible, its core tenets, and its lessons. But you don’t need to be a Bible scholar to contribute to youth group! Be willing to learn and to admit when you don’t have an answer to a question. This can often lead to an even better discussion as you and a student can dig into God’s Word together.What Teens Do NeedSo, what do teenagers need from adult volunteers? You could be a great fit if you bring these traits to the table:

• Consistent attendance. It’s important that students can count on you to stay present in their lives, remember their names, pray for them, and support them.
• A genuine interest in the teens in your church’s youth group.
• You’re actively pursuing God and are excited to share your passion with others.

The time you spend with younger church members can impact them for a lifetime. Put aside your fears and jump in!Our blog page has helpful hints for parents to encourage their children to excel academically, spiritually, and socially. To learn more about Orlando private schools, contact us at 407-246-4800.