How to Become a Wonderful Godparent

When you are asked to be a godparent, it’s a great honor! However, it can also be a bit stressful, especially if you’ve never been a godparent before — but don’t worry! What this important role comes down to is love, accountability, and intentionality. If you keep those values at the core of your actions and follow these tips, you will be a blessing and role model to your grandchild throughout his or her life.Pray for Your GodchildKeep your godchild in your prayers and let him know that you pray for him. It’s important to be specific; when you talk to your godchild and he admits he is worried about a big test, a problem with friends, or college applications, tell him you will pray for that specifically. Then the next time you see him, tell them you’ve been praying for that big test and would love to know how it went! Your godchild will feel valued and listened to, and you can demonstrate the power of prayer in a personal, practical way.Be Active in Their LifeGet to know your godchild and spend time with them! If you live far away from each other, try to Skype or talk on the phone a few times a month; when you come into town, schedule some time for the two of you to hang out. Ask questions about what’s going on in their world and keep track of important details, like their favorite food, the name of their best friend, and favorite subject in school.Model Your FaithBe open about your faith in God and your confidence in His plan. When your godchild comes to you seeking advice, listen carefully and patiently, then suggest prayer or an appropriate scripture. Talk to her about the new Bible study you’ve joined, how you intentionally set aside time to write in your prayer journal, or exchange your favorite Bible stories. Make sure you ask her how she’s actively pursuing the Lord!Love Them FreelyHelp develop his or her positive self-image. Praise your godchild for his kindness, patience, and faithfulness, and let him know when you notice his individual traits and talents. When you witness him going out of his way to take care of someone, find him later on to tell him how proud you are. When your godchild discovers his God-given passion, support him and encourage him to change the world. Your goal is to become one of your godchild’s biggest cheerleaders, reminding him of the power of God’s unconditional love and how you and his parents love him with that same love.Our blog page has helpful hints for parents to encourage their children to excel academically, spiritually, and socially. To learn more about Orlando private schools, contact us at 407-246-4800.