Talking to Your Child About Lent

Lent is the period of time that allows families to prepare for Easter, the celebration of Jesus Christ’s Resurrection. During this time, you make certain changes to become closer to God. It might be hard for your child to understand why Jesus died and why her normal routine is being changed, and the thought of fasting and sacrificing the things she enjoys may frighten your child. In order for her to understand she’s not being denied her beloved treats, it’s important to explain to her in a child-friendly way what Lenten ideals are all about. 

Start with His Story
To start, you want your child to understand her to know where her Catholic roots began. Share the story of Jesus Christ — even if she knows it, children love story time and it helps her retain the information! Do this on a regular basis; in the Bible, read about Jesus’ life and search for Easter books for children. Emphasize the fact that Jesus lived on Earth and He achieved everlasting life. 

Talk About His Death
In order to explain Lenten ideals to your child, you will need to discuss the Resurrection of Jesus with her. Don’t go into excessive detail about the crucifixion itself, as you don’t want to frighten or sadden her. Explain to her that Jesus died for the salvation of His believers. For young children, you can simply say Jesus died and rises on Easter for us. Older children can listen to a little more details about death. Remember: Emphasize that death is not the end, but the beginning of eternal life. 

The Meaning of Easter
Easter is the most important holiday in the Catholic faith. It goes beyond cute bunnies, painted eggs, and chocolate candy. Remind your child that these are just festivities and activities to celebrate, but the real purpose of this special time is the resurrection and when He rises. Jesus sacrificed His life to give ours meaning. In return, we need to reflect and prepare for the glory that is Easter Sunday. Once your child understands this, then you can discuss what can be given and what can be taken away. For example, your family can “sacrifice” going out to eat, and instead, volunteer at a local organization. Once she has fulfilled her acts of service and sacrifice, then she can move on to the fun things, like decorating Easter eggs!

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